May Day! Grandparents as Sex Educators?

Grandparents have always been a steady source of wisdom, but now they’re taking on a new, crucial role in the education of their grandchildren—especially when it comes to sexuality and relationships.

Key points:

Grandparents can counter the misinformation children might encounter and role model what healthy relationships look like.

Talking about sex can be difficult but “You have to be the primary sex educator for your child,” said Dr. Pat.

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In a world full of social media and confusing online influences, grandparents can provide guidance.

“Grandparents have a lot to contribute in terms of just educating kids in everything, particularly when it comes to sexuality and relationships,” Dr. Patricia Weerakoon said.

Grandparents can counter the misinformation children might encounter and role model what healthy relationships look like.

Grandparents can counter the misinformation children might encounter and role model what healthy relationships look like.

Through their own lived experiences, they provide lessons that go beyond the transactional nature of relationships often portrayed in media, teaching respect, empathy, and real intimacy.

“A hug in the morning, a kiss when you return from work, and a pash before bed,” Dr Pat said, explaining the reality of intimacy.

“You’ve had sex three times for the day.”

Talking about sex can be difficult but “You have to be the primary sex educator for your child,” said Dr. Pat.

Dr Pat believes physical affection isn’t the only way to express love and says simple, everyday gestures like holding hands or sharing moments of closeness help to nurture deep emotional connections.

Talking about sex can be difficult but it’s important that it is normalised.

“You have to be the primary sex educator for your children,” Dr Pat said, highlighting the importance of parents and grandparents breaking down old taboos.

Listen to this episode of ‘She Wasn’t Born Yesterday’ in the player above or wherever you get your podcasts.

By embracing open, age-appropriate discussions, we can foster an environment of trust and understanding within families, making it easier for children to come to the adults in their lives with questions and concerns.

Grandparents, with their wisdom and lived experiences, have the power to shape healthier, more informed attitudes towards relationships and intimacy in future generations.

Listen to this episode of ‘She Wasn’t Born Yesterday’ in the player above or wherever you get your podcasts.

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